I also think the important thing to note here is that Tinder allows you to choose what searches you want to be included in [such as a nonbinary person wanting to be included in search results for men or women or both], which means if you are exclusively looking for women and a man’s profile pops up anyways, he has chosen to have his profile appear under women’s searches. That is not only a gross abuse of their gender-diverse system, it’s also a Big Ol’ Example of men feeling entitled to the attention of women, and specifically lesbians who have 0 interest in them.
Yeah I knew men who intentionally did that and it’s so fucking annoying too like 😑can gay women not have anything nice
also as I reblog I think it’s key to point out op is not a terf and is not referring to trans women, as some terfs in the notes are grossly misinterpreting this post that way
Registering as a bi woman on Tinder will also get you search results that are 98% men. I stopped using Tinder before they let people be nonbinary on there, though, mostly because I didn’t like the whole swiping people left (I think it’s left?) when they were actually pretty decent looking, just not my type.
came up with a new pointless kink identity. it’s called friend dom. it’s when you have to come up with every activity for hangout sessions cuz your friend is too indecisive or laid back and never decides on what they wanna do
